"Imagine this: some morning we awake to the cultural consensus that a family, however else defined, is a sort of compact of mutual loyalty, organized around the hope of giving rich, human meaning to the lives of its members. Toward this end they do what people do - play with their babies, comfort their sick, keep their holidays, commemorate their occasions, sing songs, tell jokes, fight and reconcile, teach and learn what they know about right and wrong, about what is beautiful and what is to be valued. They enjoy each other and make themselves enjoyable. They are kind and receive kindness, they are generous and sustained and enriched by others' generosity. The antidote to fear, distrust or weakness, or even disloyalty, is always loyalty."
-M. Robinson, from The Death of Adam
in other words
Love is not love /Which alters when alteration finds
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